If you are one of those people who like to hang out with your friends all the time, have another boyfriend/girlfriend waiting for them if they want to break up, never go shopping or for a walk by themselves you may have some insecurity issues. People need to spend time with theirselves. But why is that?
- Know yourself better
For me it is the most important. Spending time with yourself allows you to see a more clear image of yourself, your strengths and weaknesses. You can notice those little things that make you who you are. Also, it can improve your self-confidence because when you know who you are you are more comfortable and happy. More than that you may realise those things that you have to improve.
2. Better relationships
If your insecurities force you to have as many people as possible in your life you ll end up spending your life with people that you do not like, wrong relationships and wrong reasons to love someone. BUT if you get over these insecurities you ll choose wisely your friends and lovers by focusing on the things that you like about them and not the fact that you’ll have one more person to spend time with. Only those who really make you feel good deserve to be in your life.
Finish your jobs by yourself. Do not ask your mum to do it for you or say to your friend to order for you in the shop because you do not have the courage. It may be difficult in the beginning to take decision such as go shopping alone if you are not that type of person but you ll see that time after time you ll get used to it and you ll be able to do things that now you dont even imagine. Being independent will help you not only in your personal life but also in reaching higher position in you job. People who can take up responsibilities and do not afraid of doing things alone can be easier trusted for a job.
When you have problems or you need to take an important decision for you life it is nice to have your friends and family next to you, consulting you. But no one knows better what you should do than yourself. Spend time alone, make lists with your priorities, ask yourself questions and you ll find the answer you seek for.
Little steps can change yourself and your life more than you could ever imagine ♥